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Guilt & people pleasing

Second-guessing myself always lingers in the background, when I don’t allow myself to PEOPLE PLEASE.. Feeling guilty for not people-pleasing is something that I just have to make friends with, although sometimes it just feels harder than others. Being authentic & true to myself is so much more important but breaking old habits is tough,… Continue reading Guilt & people pleasing

Adversity & support · anxiety · Coaching tips · Life tips · Resilience · self care · Self-reflection & self-awareness

Finding a balance between self-soothing and running away from emotional pain is tough..

Inspired by a comment made by a friend on her facebook page, I wanted to address the difficulty of finding a balance between self-soothing and running away from emotional pain. I also wanted to write about what it actually means to self-soothe. Self-soothing is about allowing yourself to experience any uncomfortable emotions by using healthy… Continue reading Finding a balance between self-soothing and running away from emotional pain is tough..

Adversity & support · anxiety · Child abuse · Cluster B disorders · Cluster C disorders · Compassion · complex ptsd · Depression · Domestic abuse · Dysfuntional relationships · Emotional abuse · mental health · Mental illness · Narcissistic abuse · Narcissistic abuse syndrome · People Pleaser Syndrome · recovery · Rejection · Resilience · self care · Self-reflection & self-awareness · Uncategorized · Youtube videos

Mental Health Awareness week

Ending the stigma of mental health is still proving to be a challenge, although in the UK we are getting ever closer to our goal of a deeper understanding, tolerance & acceptance of the importance of talking about our mental health. As somebody who has never known what life is like without mental health problems,… Continue reading Mental Health Awareness week

Adversity & support · anxiety · assertiveness · Child abuse · Coaching tips · codependency · Emotional abuse · Life tips · mental health · Narcissistic abuse · People Pleaser Syndrome · recovery · Self-reflection & self-awareness · Uncategorized · Youtube videos

Approval seeking

Approval seeking is a very common behaviour that all of us are guilty of at some point in our life. It might be that we are trying to impress someone we like, make a new friend or make a good impression on our new boss. It is perfectly normal to seek approval in others occasionally.… Continue reading Approval seeking

Adversity & support · anxiety · Cluster C disorders · complex ptsd · Depression · Dysfuntional relationships · Emotional abuse · Life tips · low self-esteem · Narcissistic abuse · recovery · Rejection · Uncategorized

Avoidant Personality Disorder

Although it isn’t Monday yet, I have already uploaded Monday’s Youtube video 3 hours early, as tomorrow I am mostly on the go and won’t be checking in much. As most of my videos focus on CPTSD, Narcissistic abuse, Dysfunctional Relationships and other areas of emotional difficulty, I wanted to address a cluster C disorder… Continue reading Avoidant Personality Disorder

Adversity & support · anxiety · Child abuse · Cluster B disorders · complex ptsd · Domestic abuse · Dysfuntional relationships · low self-esteem · mental health · Mental illness · Narcissistic abuse · Narcissistic abuse syndrome · Negativity · People Pleaser Syndrome · recovery · Self-reflection & self-awareness · TRAUMA THERAPIES · Youtube videos

Infantilization

You might have heard of the term infantilization but you may not realise how incredibly abusive it is when a parent does this to their child. It is only natural for a growing child to start developing independent thoughts, actions and opinions. For a narcissistic parent this can be very threatening, as they want to… Continue reading Infantilization